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Baby Carrier FAQ's

Baby Carrier FAQ's

If you're new to the world of carriers, the sheer amount of options can seem overwhelming and that's before you even get to fitting and using the carrier.

 

But don't worry, you're not the first to have questions, so we've collated our most frequently asked questions about baby carriers, wraps and ring slings to ease your mind and help you enjoy the benefits of babywearing.

Read the answers below from Coralie, our Certified Babywearing Consultant. Coralie qualified through the Centre for Babywearing Studies New York.


What should I look for in a carrier?

When looking for a carrier, you need to consider the safety standards, supportiveness, size, adjustability and more.

In terms of supportiveness, you want to look for a carrier that provides adequate support for you both (the baby and the carrier/wearer). It will also need work for the activities that you want to undertake whilst baby-wearing, for example, will you use it to simply carry baby at home whilst doing the chores or will you be getting more adventurous with long bush walks etc.

 
There are NO safety standards for baby carriers in New Zealand. Most brands have their carriers tested to meet safety standards in other countries such as the USA or the EU. Always look for a carrier which has been tested to meet safety requirements.

 

While most carriers are OSFM, if you are on the smaller or larger end of “normal", it is best to find out if the carrier will work for you. If you are petite then you will want a carrier that can cross over on your back as this will allow the shoulder straps to be tighter. However, if you're larger you will find that a carrier that fits with the shoulder straps positioned like the straps of a backpack on your back is more what will work for you.  

 

You also need to consider the child that the carrier will be used for. Carriers suited to newborns are a great option for the early months as there is less bulk to them and they provide the right support for your newborn/young baby. Many OSFM carriers do not fit well until your baby is a few weeks old but will last until they are around two years old. If your child is over two then you might want to look at a Toddler sized carrier. Often we consider our baby a toddler as soon as they can walk, but for carriers, it is not until your child can fit size two pants comfortably that they can fit toddler carriers.

 


Can I baby carry if I have a bad back?

Yes, you just have to listen to your body to know when you need to take a break. Some carriers have built-in or additional lumbar support that can help with distributing the weight on your lower back. Having a carrier with a waistband will help to spread the weight so that it is not just on the shoulders.


How can I prevent overheating (for me and bubs)?

Treat your carrier as a layer of core clothing for you both. So if it is warm strip you both down to a cotton top layer. If you are both sweaty people then looking at a thinner carrier with mesh or thin cotton is best, so carriers with multiple layers are best to avoid.

Be mindful of the activities that you are doing when wearing your little one and take breaks when needed. Keep hydrated and cover up when the sun is out in full force.


Is one carrier enough or should I buy one for me and one for hubby (I am short and he is tall)?

You should be able to share one carrier with only minor adjustments to be made to the carrier. For shorter people with a short torso a carrier without an infant would be best, whereas this is not important for someone who is taller.

The only two adjustments that you will need to make when going between the two of you is adjusting the length of the waistband, and adjusting the chest clip to be the right height or length. Shoulder straps should be loosened and tightened each time meaning that it will be adjusted anyway.


How do I know if my baby will like being in a carrier?

If your baby is happy to be snuggled on your chest facing you then a carrier should be right for your baby. Sometimes it can take a few goes in the carrier before your baby will like it and get used to it, so don't assume that if they cry the first time they won't like it.


My baby seems very nosey – should I move him/her to a front facing carrier?

There is no need to move them to a different carrier, in fact, you want to encourage them to be looking around and twisting and turning in the carrier when facing you. When positioned in the carrier facing you your baby is essentially having tummy time on you and pushing off and turning around strengthening their core muscles as they do so. These motions are important skills for learning to sit, crawl, roll, walk, climb and walk.


How long would I use a baby carrier for?

It is different for everyone and depends on the carrier that you are using and the support that it provides for you both. Many families use their carriers until their baby can no longer fit their carrier comfortably which is often around two years of age. At this point, some families then move on to a toddler-sized carrier.


Will carrying my baby make him/her more needy/want to be carried all the time?

Your baby by nature wants and needs to be carried. Humans are altricial beings and from birth, babies need help to survive and for someone to carry them from place to place. As they grow older they become more independent and need help less and less. Your baby will want to be held and carried whether in your arms or a carrier, the only difference is that it is easier for us as parents to use a carrier as it allows us to meet their need for closeness and our need to get things done.


What is the pelvic tuck?

The pelvic tuck is the scooping of the hips towards you positioning your baby with their weight being on their tailbone bringing their knees up to be above their bottom. This helps provide a hip-healthy position and helps to take the weight off the back of your little ones' knees in the carrier.

 

How to do the pelvic tuck/tilt with a baby carrier

To ensure a comfortable fit and good hip development baby's need to be positioned correctly in a baby carrier. The baby's tailbone should be at the lowest point with their legs in the "m" position, higher than their bottom. This also helps with baby's head positioning, meaning it's naturally resting against you. Having your baby correctly positioned is also more comfortable and ergonomic for the wearer. The Sleep Store's baby wearing consultant, Coralie demonstrates how to do the pelvic tuck.

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My baby can’t hold her head up yet – is it safe to use a carrier?

Yes, some babies can take a few weeks to be able to hold up their head and this is not a prerequisite for using a carrier. For a young baby, you want the top of the panel to come up your baby’s back to be at the base of their ears. Your carrier does not need to hold your baby's head on your chest.

Having your baby positioned well in your carrier with their spine nicely curved, their legs positioned well with their knees above their bottom and their head resting on the hard part of your chest close enough to kiss will help your baby’s head naturally rest on your chest when in the carrier. If you need more support you can use the back of the carrier hood to hold the back of your little one's head or the pass of your stretchy wrap. Just ensure that your baby's face is completely clear so that their airways are not compromised.


Why is wide-leg position important? What is the M position?

The M position is where your baby’s knees are above their bottom. This position is how they naturally hold their legs up when born and is often referred to as froggy legged. This position is important for healthy hip development as it allows their hips to be positioned with the ball in the socket of their hips. If your baby has hip issues then having them with their legs dangling down can result in the ball of their femur popping out of the hip joint.


Can I use a baby carrier while sitting?

You sure can! Some carriers are more comfortable than others when it comes to sitting down while wearing them. Ring Slings and wraps are great options if you need to sit down a lot with a carrier on as they have no waistband.


Can I baby wear when pregnant?

Yes, as long as you have no medical reason not to babywear and you feel comfortable carrying your child in a carrier, then it is fine. Back carrying or wearing on your hip is more comfortable with a growing bump as you can wear the carrier above, below or to the side of your bump to keep pressure off of your tummy. You can wear the waistband above or below your bump, just go with whichever feels more comfortable.

If you are finding the waistband to be too uncomfortable you could look at some other carrier options such as a ring sling, onbuhimo or a woven wrap.


I am plus size - what carriers would work for me?

Every baby carrier fits differently just as everyone's body shape differs, so there is no hard and fast rule on what will work best. However there are many carrier options out there for plus-size wearers that work well, so don’t let size stop you.

For a larger wearer, there are some features in a carrier that you need to take into consideration when buying to ensure that it will fit.

• How long is the waistband? Will it fit your waist?

• If the waistband is not long enough, can you get an extender?

• Can you wear the shoulder straps H-style? Most carriers do but it pays to check

• How long are the shoulder straps?

• Does it have PFAs?

 

Do remember that a waistband is designed to sit around your waist and not your hips, so this measurement is usually a but smaller. Some carriers have the option of purchasing a waistband extender, so keep this in mind if needed.

A carrier with shoulder straps that can only be worn in the X-style can limit the length that you can get the straps. This style is ideal for those with smaller frames as you can get the straps tighter, whereas the straps worn H-style on your back can be extended further to fit larger sizes.

Most buckle carriers have similar-length shoulder straps. Having PFA's on your carrier can allow you to have a wee bit more length. Meh Dai carriers have different length straps depending on the brand. These are still much longer than the straps on buckle carriers.

Here are some popular carrier options for plus-sized wearers:

1. The Beco Gemini and Beco 8 - these are our most popular carriers for larger wearers. Their simple long shoulder strap design coupled with the ability to purchase a waistband extender means that they are often the go-to option.

2. Meh Dai carriers - they have long waistbands and shoulder straps that you tie, so you are not restricted by buckles. The straps are usually generous and you can tie the shoulder straps in different ways to get the right fit.

3. Ring slings - these are a one-shoulder carrier with nothing around your waist. They usually have a generous amount of fabric to fit all sizes.

4. Woven wrap - there is a variety of sizes available. For larger wearers, a size 6 or 7 would be most appropriate as they would have some length left to be able to try a few different carriers.

 


How long can I wear a carrier for?

As long as the carrier is fitted well and is following all of the safe carrier guidelines (close enough to kiss, airways clear, supported hips and spine, in view at all times and carrier is tightened and secure) then you can carry for as long as you wish to. Usually we are maxed out at a few hours at a time needing to take baby out for a nappy change or toilet break, or to feed. So if your little one and you are comfy then keep on wearing them.


Should I go for a newborn carrier or an adjustable carrier for my new baby?

This comes down to personal preference. The benefit of a newborn-specific carrier is that it will fit your baby from the start supporting them in the newborn scrunched position. There is less bulk to the carrier and they are usually lovely and soft. The benefit of an adjustable carrier is that you only need to buy one carrier for your whole carrying journey and you can share it between siblings. Like all OSFM items, it will have an awkward stage at some point where it doesn’t fit perfectly but it won’t be for too long.


What should I dress my baby in when in the carrier?

Treat your carrier as one core layer of clothing for your little one, then dress around that. Long pants and jackets are perfectly fine to use for warmth, and merino layers are always recommended for their breathability and moi ture wicking properties.

Outfits with closed toes are best to avoid when using a carrier as when your child is put into the sitting position the ends of the pants pull up and can curl your little ones toes, so if you choose to use them ensure that there is plenty of room for little toes. Puffy jackets are also not ideal as the puffy filling can result in your carrier not being tightened enough and being a fall risk.


How do I wash my carrier?

Sometimes spot cleaning just isn’t enough to get our carriers clean, so a full wash is necessary. When your carrier is brand new you also might want to wash it before use, especially if it is made from woven wrap fabric as this will help to soften it up. The washing process does depend on the type of carrier that you have.

It is best to use a gentle washing powder or liquid if your little one has delicate skin, but normal washing powder is fine. If you are unsure about your detergent then be sure to check with the carrier manufacturer. Always avoid washing with fabrics that have colour that can run, sharp objects like zips that could catch on the fabric and or anything that will shed as it will go all over the carrier.

How to wash a ring sling carrier

  • Unthread your ring sling.
  • Put a sock over the rings to protect the rings and your washing machine
  • Pop in the wash with other soft items (no zips or sharp objects) either loose, in a large laundry bag or in a pillowcase with the ends tied shut.
  • Put through a delicate cycle with your usual washing powder/liquid.
  • Dry on the line out of sun to avoid sun fade.

How to wash a buckle carrier, onbuhimo or half buckle

  • Do up all of the buckles and tighten the webbing
  • Put into a large laundry bag or into a pillowcase with the end tied shut. You can leave them loose if you wish to, just ensure that you wash it with other soft items avoiding zips or sharp objects.
  • Put through a delicate cycle with your usual washing powder/liquid.
  • Dry on the line out of sun to avoid sun fade.

How to wash a stretchy wrap, woven wrap or Meh-Dai

  • Pop in the wash with other soft items (no zips or sharp objects) either loose, in a large laundry bag or in a pillowcase with the ends tied shut.
  • Put through a delicate cycle with your usual washing powder/liquid.
  • Dry on the line out of sun to avoid sun fade.

 


What carrier options are there for twins?

More often than not families with twins go for two separate carriers instead of a twin specific carrier. This is because often parents will carry one baby each or only one twin needs to be carried at one time.

If you wish to wear both babies at the same time there are a few different options.

- Minimonkey twin sling - this can be used from newborn until 12kgs for each baby.

- Two ring slings - one baby in each sling.

- Boba wrap or Love Radius wrap - when young you can have both babies worn in these stretchy wraps at the same time, you just need to consider the weight limit is 16kgs across both babies.

- A woven wrap - you can wrap both babies with a long woven wrap with one on your front and one on your back. This does take quite some practice at first but is a great option.

- A combination of carriers such as buckle carriers, onbuhimo, meh dai, half buckle carriers, ring sling, stretchy wrap or woven wrap with one on your front and one on your back.